Clarity of Thought | Second Step in Self Improvement and Managing Stress
Be clear in your vision and dynamics and put your point clearly and firmly would be your second step in direction of self improvement and managing step. Well to simplified thing it is about being clear in our relationship and transactions. Tell no politely (not arrogantly) and firmly when required instead of tell yes and do nothing and irritate someone.
Some people have habit of tell yes to even unreasonable demands and then do nothing. For example if your friend or relative need some financial assistant and approach you. You know your money will safe if you help him and even want to do so. It is good to help someone who is in need. But what if you don’t have that much money. You must say no politely instead of telling yes and don’t fulfill commitment.
Be clear in your vision and prioritize your relationships and your goals and define that what you need today, tomorrow, after six month and after three years like that. Clear what is dear to you much and what can be wait for sometimes.
Don’t think about past too much but learn from it and don’t worry about future too much but make plan for it. Live in present and try to make every event better. Judge values of relationships and make one thing clear in mind that nothing should be carry on if it don’t able to provide you peace of mind. Don’t be too much demanding in relationship and always understand that relationship is two way street.
Politeness is must required for self improvement. If you are arrogant and agitated then no use even if you are basically good person and care for others. No meaning of emotions if you can’t able to express it to your dear one. Clarity of thought is must required in every relationship be it marriage, partnership or any kind otherwise it would be basis for misunderstanding
I don’t want to imply that you should become businessman in every kind of relationship and judge everything via profit and loss. I just want to imply that if your want to improve yourself you should define some boundaries when come to relationships because without it there would be lot of scope for misunderstandings
